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Hobbyist: Knight or Demon?

30-Aug-2009


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Hobbyist: Knight or Demon?

Being a good hobbyist, means being a respectful good friend. Arrive at your appointments on time, always be gentlemanly and polite, don't show up to her incall location without an appointment, and always pay your provider what was agreed to. Do not play head games, donâeTMt scam the girls, and donâeTMt be physically and or verbally abusive.

Hobbyist: Knight or Demon?

It is understandable why Hobbyists share information between themselves about the escorts they see on the review boards. They do so to limit their chances of wasting their time and money with bad providers or misleading escort ads, and to share with other hobbyists who the worthwhile providers are. Hobbyists also seek to protect themselves from law enforcement who routinely post fake ads for sting operations to bust Johns. So all in all thereâeTMs no problem, right?

Well, not so fast. What started out to be a great idea to protect hobbyists has sadly evolved to a point where reviews are now posted for many unscrupulous and unethical reasons.

For Exampleâe¦

1. AGENCIES, PIMPS, or HANDLERS are rather possessive of their girls, and if a provider doesnâeTMt like the way she was being treated and makes a break to work as an independent, it is common for agencies and pimps to post really bad reviews so that the girl has a very difficult time making it alone as an independent.

2 SCAMMERS In regards to Hobbyists, some are cheap and disrespectful and have learned to barter their good reviews in exchange for full service or free service from the girls. They tout themselves as well known and influential hobbyists in the community stating boldly they can make or break a providerâeTMs success. They mostly target new girls to the industry who need reviews to get themselves to become established and recognized as safe by the hobbyist community

3. Many IMMATURE and MEAN SPIRITED hobbyists will post unwarranted bad reviews, just because a provider doesnâeTMt provide them the kink, the fetish, or the full service they want. If an escort just doesnâeTMt provide a fetish service or go all the way with full service, why are you punishing her? Just respect her boundaries, and go find a provider who does provide what youâeTMre looking for, grow the fuck up, or take your anger management issues to a psychologist.

4. MANIPULATIVE and BLACKMAILING Hobbyists. Once providers become wise to a bad hobbyist and their antics, the bad hobbyistâeTMs phone numbers and emails become blocked. Those hobbyist becomes frustrated that few girls, or the quality girls, are not answering their phone or returning his emails, so in an adolescent temper tantrum he resorts to blackmailing providers with bad reviews or outing them publicly, to their family, friends, even the cops. These hobbyists violate an escortâeTMs trust by exposing their real names, their incall locations, their private phone #âeTMs and emails, etc. These hobbyists should be blacklisted by all escorts, and just have the door of any opportunities shut in their face.

5. KISS and TELL Hobbyists. While these hobbyists think their cute writing in the juicy details of the VIP members area of review boards their (really not so secret) acronyms, like BBG (bare back greek), BBFS (bare back full service), BBBJ (bare back blow job), or DSL (dick sucking lips) little do these idiots realize that vice cops from all over the country are VIP members too, and they read all the incriminating juicy details that are posted there. Thanks to you immature âecekiss and tell hobbyistsâe� who are trying to show off like some junior high school virgins, you are actually posting private and intimate details that is incriminating to you and the providers you review, thus making you and her targets for vice stings.

Now while the defense posture of the review boards cites freedom of speech and that all information contained on their review website is just for entertainment purposes, the hobbyists that read this stuff still take it pretty much as the gospel, so itâeTMs not just entertainment as far as the law and the escorts are concerned.

So to be a good hobbyist remember, âeceDonâeTMt be a jerk.âe� Give good reviews but donâeTMt be too revealing and graphic. You may think this adolescent Kiss and Tell stuff makes you a big shot with the other hobbyists, but you do yourself and the girls some real injustices.

  • You make your wonderful provider who trusted you a new favorite target with local vice cops who now know that she goes above and beyond the call of duty. So, in effect you are now helping her get targeted and eventually busted by Law enforcement.


  • Secondly, once she discovers you were the one who wasnâeTMt discreet with the trust you were given, she will no longer see you, and then she will tell all the other escorts on www.NationalBlacklist.com, so that no other women will want to see you because youâeTMve proved yourself to be untrustworthy and disrespectful.

Being a good hobbyist, means being a respectful good friend. Arrive at your appointments on time, always be gentlemanly and polite, don't show up to her incall location without an appointment, and always pay your provider what was agreed to. Do not play head games, donâeTMt scam the girls, and donâeTMt be physically and or verbally abusive. If the provider says no to one of your requests, always respect her wishes. She has a right to say no, and to set limitations as to what she will do and donâeTMt do. You have the right to call a different girl next time, but you have no right to force yourself on her or be abusive to her in any way.

Being with a beautiful female escort is a privilege, it is not a right. Treat her as if you appreciate the privilege, and she'll treat you very well in return.

 

   Is an Escort Worth It?
   Escorts: Escape and Pleasure
   Not All Escorts Are the Same
   Good, Bad Ugly: CraigsList Ads
   Hobbyist: Knight or Demon?
   FOR NEWBIES:
      Etiquette for the First Time
      Language of the Hobby
      How to Please a Woman
      Why Use an Escort Service
      The REAL cost of Pussy
 
 
 

Hobbyist: Knight or Demon?

Being a good hobbyist, means being a respectful good friend. Arrive at your appointments on time, always be gentlemanly and polite, don't show up to her incall location without an appointment, and always pay your provider what was agreed to. Do not play head games, donâeTMt scam the girls, and donâeTMt be physically and or verbally abusive.

Hobbyist: Knight or Demon?

It is understandable why Hobbyists share information between themselves about the escorts they see on the review boards. They do so to limit their chances of wasting their time and money with bad providers or misleading escort ads, and to share with other hobbyists who the worthwhile providers are. Hobbyists also seek to protect themselves from law enforcement who routinely post fake ads for sting operations to bust Johns. So all in all thereâeTMs no problem, right?

Well, not so fast. What started out to be a great idea to protect hobbyists has sadly evolved to a point where reviews are now posted for many unscrupulous and unethical reasons.

For Exampleâe¦

1. AGENCIES, PIMPS, or HANDLERS are rather possessive of their girls, and if a provider doesnâeTMt like the way she was being treated and makes a break to work as an independent, it is common for agencies and pimps to post really bad reviews so that the girl has a very difficult time making it alone as an independent.

2 SCAMMERS In regards to Hobbyists, some are cheap and disrespectful and have learned to barter their good reviews in exchange for full service or free service from the girls. They tout themselves as well known and influential hobbyists in the community stating boldly they can make or break a providerâeTMs success. They mostly target new girls to the industry who need reviews to get themselves to become established and recognized as safe by the hobbyist community

3. Many IMMATURE and MEAN SPIRITED hobbyists will post unwarranted bad reviews, just because a provider doesnâeTMt provide them the kink, the fetish, or the full service they want. If an escort just doesnâeTMt provide a fetish service or go all the way with full service, why are you punishing her? Just respect her boundaries, and go find a provider who does provide what youâeTMre looking for, grow the fuck up, or take your anger management issues to a psychologist.

4. MANIPULATIVE and BLACKMAILING Hobbyists. Once providers become wise to a bad hobbyist and their antics, the bad hobbyistâeTMs phone numbers and emails become blocked. Those hobbyist becomes frustrated that few girls, or the quality girls, are not answering their phone or returning his emails, so in an adolescent temper tantrum he resorts to blackmailing providers with bad reviews or outing them publicly, to their family, friends, even the cops. These hobbyists violate an escortâeTMs trust by exposing their real names, their incall locations, their private phone #âeTMs and emails, etc. These hobbyists should be blacklisted by all escorts, and just have the door of any opportunities shut in their face.

5. KISS and TELL Hobbyists. While these hobbyists think their cute writing in the juicy details of the VIP members area of review boards their (really not so secret) acronyms, like BBG (bare back greek), BBFS (bare back full service), BBBJ (bare back blow job), or DSL (dick sucking lips) little do these idiots realize that vice cops from all over the country are VIP members too, and they read all the incriminating juicy details that are posted there. Thanks to you immature âecekiss and tell hobbyistsâe� who are trying to show off like some junior high school virgins, you are actually posting private and intimate details that is incriminating to you and the providers you review, thus making you and her targets for vice stings.

Now while the defense posture of the review boards cites freedom of speech and that all information contained on their review website is just for entertainment purposes, the hobbyists that read this stuff still take it pretty much as the gospel, so itâeTMs not just entertainment as far as the law and the escorts are concerned.

So to be a good hobbyist remember, âeceDonâeTMt be a jerk.âe� Give good reviews but donâeTMt be too revealing and graphic. You may think this adolescent Kiss and Tell stuff makes you a big shot with the other hobbyists, but you do yourself and the girls some real injustices.

  • You make your wonderful provider who trusted you a new favorite target with local vice cops who now know that she goes above and beyond the call of duty. So, in effect you are now helping her get targeted and eventually busted by Law enforcement.


  • Secondly, once she discovers you were the one who wasnâeTMt discreet with the trust you were given, she will no longer see you, and then she will tell all the other escorts on www.NationalBlacklist.com, so that no other women will want to see you because youâeTMve proved yourself to be untrustworthy and disrespectful.

Being a good hobbyist, means being a respectful good friend. Arrive at your appointments on time, always be gentlemanly and polite, don't show up to her incall location without an appointment, and always pay your provider what was agreed to. Do not play head games, donâeTMt scam the girls, and donâeTMt be physically and or verbally abusive. If the provider says no to one of your requests, always respect her wishes. She has a right to say no, and to set limitations as to what she will do and donâeTMt do. You have the right to call a different girl next time, but you have no right to force yourself on her or be abusive to her in any way.

Being with a beautiful female escort is a privilege, it is not a right. Treat her as if you appreciate the privilege, and she'll treat you very well in return.

 
 
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